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Saturday, December 26, 2009

SERIOUSLY?!?!?!

So I know that I all ready posted something on Christmas but this is another thing. These things have been running through my head all day and its time to let them out.

It was Christmas Eve. I woke up around 3. I was not feeling good and threw up. (I've been sick since last saturday). I knew that I had to be home by 4 to cook Mac & Cheese for the kiddies as part of Christmas dinner. So Tyson decides to get up and go to the store for what I have no idea. But he comes home about a half hour later and tosses some candy and a dr. pepper to me and then takes his coat off. By then Sally (his cat) had gotten out of her bed to greet him at the door. Well he threw his coat on the floor and picked her up and threw her outside and told her that she was staying out there all day/night. I got up from laying on the couch and said your not keeping her out there that long, its too cold for her out there what did she do anyways. She peed on his coat. After fighting about that for about 5 minutes I get up again and decide to get ready to go home. I hear him let her in and then I hear him shoving her in her kitty litter box and facing it towards the wall so she couldn't get out. I got up set again and said you can't do that to her either. She can't be stuck inside her litter box full of her feces that arn't good for her to breath in for a long time. He was yelling at me and asking me how to get her to stop peeing every where and I told him that he needs to keep his house clean and most of all her litter box cleaned cause cats won't go in it if it is to dirty.

Aunt Bec HELP! Is there anything else we can do to get her to stop peeing on everything but her litter box. She is fixed also and only does it if we are gone or sleeping. She won't do it while we are awake.

So that was Christmas Eve.

Christmas day was a little better but not much. I stayed home with my grandparents and we were all just lazy bums for the day. lol. So I decide to get online after I woke up from a nap and asked Tyson if he would come get me cause I would like to see my boyfriend on Christmas. He says no I don't want to drive. I'm sorry. I told him that he wasn't sorry and that it was bull crap he came up with that excuse. Then he came up with I'm sick and your sick and I just don't want to drive. lol. Then I told him I wish you would just tell me that you don't want to see me instead of coming up with stupid excuses. Why doesn't my own boyfriend who suppositvely loves me doesn't want to see me on Christmas day. OHHHHH I was one upset person for a few hours.

HAHAHA there is my holiday! Merry Christmas to me!

2 comments:

Bec said...

One of my cats has a pee-problem too. She stayed outside almost allllllll summer long because of it. I finally gave up trying to teach her, and stopped punishing her and yelling at her for it. For whatever reason, she is just not good with being inside and out of my sight. SO, now that it's winter, she's in and out all day long, but when she's in, she's either in my lap, or locked up in the laundry room. =( Poor kitty. But that's just what we have to do!

Bec said...

BTW... DO keep the litter box cleaned. It makes a difference for a finicky cat like that, but still may not cure the entire problem. I just got so fed up with wondering where she'd pee next... so I ended it. OUTSIDE, or locked up in the laundry room where her litter box is... and she uses it.

Other than that, I have no answers. Sometimes punishing them does more harm than good in the matter. I figured I'd smacked her butt enough times... and rubbin' their noses in it doesn't do anything either. Keep her locked in a bathroom... or hold her on your lap for some love. Yeah, don't let her stay outside at night though... poor frozen kitty! lol

Good luck!